Giving is a natural expression of help and hope in the world. In a sense, we were made to be givers; it’s how we’re wired. If all the money comes in, and none of the money flows out, then we just become stopped up. And anything that gets stopped up eventually begins to stink. The bottom line is that greedy people can’t spread hope in the world. If you really want to make a difference, think about these three giving suggestions.
There is a wonderful ceremony in the Jewish tradition called the Havdalah. Essentially, the Havdalah is a reminder that each individual is first and foremost responsible for taking care of his or her own family. But that’s not all. We’re called to do such a fantastic job at providing for our families that there is an overflow—an abundance of resources. And out of that abundance, we have a responsibility to help others. Check out the video below for an explanation of Havdalah presented by Rabbi Daniel Lapin.
It may sound like a cliché, but “giving” doesn’t necessarily mean “money.” Oftentimes, the most meaningful gift you can give is the gift of time and attention. Don’t settle for the Christmas and Thanksgiving shift at the local homeless shelter. Find ways you can spread hope with your hands year-round. Is there a single mom that needs help with babysitting? Does an older neighbor need help with her yard work? Get out of your house and show your community hope in action.
Regardless of your political views, remember that it is possible to change the nation without casting a single vote. When everyday American citizens make giving a priority, no one will have to look to Washington for a bail out. Support your local businesses. Give your time and money to your church and local nonprofits. Open your hands and your pocketbook to those in need. Don’t buy in to the notion that the government will supply your every need. Make it your goal to out-give the government.
